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| I also hate the Westboro Baptist Church people. But anyway. |
Recently, I was in an EotS, and one of the major battleground chat griefers complained that the Alliance was raping us because we were not doing so-and-so (can't remember the words exactly). Without thinking, I replied that there are people who play this game that have been raped before, and that saying that sort of thing was insensitive. Yeah, go me. He obviously continued, replying with "Rape rape rape. Rape rape rape rape."
So... I saw it coming. But I did it anyway. The only thing I could do after that was report him, and pray to the gods that others would report him as well, and that he would hopefully realize that what he was saying could actually be really harming someone.
But that's only one experience, and I'm sure you've had many yourselves.
The fact that people can purposefully spit out such vile and offensive things just disgusts me. And don't get me wrong, I've played this game for about four years now, and have heard things like this before. I'll probably hear them again. But I ask you, dear reader, where does it stop? How does it stop? What would it take?
We all know that Blizzard can only do so much to stop players from saying offensive things like that. And even then, they'd probably just recommend you to "turn on your language filter" to avoid having to read things like that again. But I gotta tell you, I would never switch that filter on. I'm an adult, I talk to other adults in my guild, and occasionally we swear. Ideally, I'd like to be able to pick which words we essentially "bleep out," but I don't think it'll cross Blizz's minds anytime soon.
So what do we do? It's a community problem, I think it will take the community to fix it. We, as the non-asshat people of the WoW community, need to stand up against those in the game who are being jerks. Don't just take it laying down. Don't let them dump all their rage and insecurities on you and your other party/raid members. Don't let people walk all over your guildmates just because they're good at tanking or healing or dealing damage. As the great Bob Marley once said, "Get up, stand up: stand up for your rights".
Now, putting it in the context of a MMORPG, here's the idea: Don't let people ruin your fun intentionally by acting out on their own insecurities or jerk-ish nature. You pay the exact same subscription as they do, why should you have to suffer through their immature name-calling and insult-throwing?
Communities are built by people. By allowing people to walk all over each other, we're not doing our community any good. If we want our experience to be less trollish and less offensive, we need to stand up against those who are mistreating others. Even if we're standing alone, maybe, just maybe, one of the bystanders will take notice. And maybe they'll stand up against someone else, too. Then another person may join in, and another, and another, until eventually, maybe people will realize that allowing people to treat each other like garbage is something we can change. We just need someone to show us that we can change it.
